Psychology Archive

Narcissism

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“Narcissism describes both a psychological and a cultural condition. On the individual level, it denotes a personality disturbance characterized by an exaggerated investment in one’s image at the expense of the self. Narcissists are more concerned with how they appear than what they feel. Indeed, they deny feelings that contradict the image thy seek. Acting without feeling, they tend to be seductive and manipulative, striving for power and control. They are egotists, focused on their own interests but lacking the true values of self – namely, self-expression, self-possession, dignity and integrity. Narcissists lack a sense of self derived from body feelings. Without a solid sense of self, they experience life as empty and meaningless. It is a desolate state.

On the cultural level, narcissism can be seen in a loss of human values – in a lack of concern for the environment, for the quality of life, for one’s fellow human beings. A power betrays its insensitivity to human needs. The proliferation of material things becomes the meausre of progress in living, aand man is pitted against woman, worker against employer, individual against community. When wealth occupies a higher position than wisdom, when noteriety is admired more than dignity, when success is more important than self-respect, the culture itself overvalues ‘image’ and must be regarded as narcissistic.”

Page ix.

The History of Psychology

This is an e-book from Dr. C. George Boeree. Click on image to read.

This is an e-book from Dr. C. George Boeree. Click on image to read.

Dr. C. George Boeree originally wrote this e-book for his students at Shippensburg University, in Pennsylvania, and has made it available online, for free, to anyone who interested.

It’s very easy to read, and gives a brilliant background to the history of psychology, set in context.

I think it’s wonderful Dr. Boeree has posted such high quality material, which is available to people like myself, at no cost.

I also think we sometimes forget about the power of the internet and how brilliant it is that I can sit in my kitchen in London and access reliable, high quality, education from a University in Pennsylvania.

Thank You Dr. Boeree.

♥Ali.

Joy

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Narcissism

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This from the introduction:

“Narcissism describes both a psychological and a cultural condition. On the individual level, it denotes a personality disturbance characterized by an exaggerated investment in one’s image at the expense of the self. Narcissists are more concerned with how they appear than what they feel. Indeed, they deny feelings that contradict the image thy seek. Acting without feeling, they tend to be seductive and manipulative, striving for power and control. They are egotists, focused on their own interests but lacking the true values of self – namely, self-expression, self-possession, dignity and integrity. Narcissists lack a sense of self derived from body feelings. Without a solid sense of self, they experience life as empty and meaningless. It is a desolate state.”                                                         p ix

This about himself:

“I have always considered myself a phallic-narcissistic character, and so I have some idea of how this personality type develops. I know that I was the apple of my mother’s eye. She looked to me to fulfill her ambitions. I was more important to her than my father was. And although my mother was not overtly sexually seductive, the implications of her feelings were sexual. Her emotional investment in me provided an extra measure of energy and excitement to my personality. Yet her need to possess me, and thus control me, diminished my sense of self. In this situation, my ego became bigger than my self, making me a narcissistic personality. On the other hand, through my identification with my father, who was simple, hardworking, and pleasure loving, I retained my feeling for the life of the body. which is at the core of the feeling self.”

The Language of the Body

The Language of the Body, by Alexander Lowen, M.D.

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Eastern Body Western Mind

By Anodea Judith. Available on amazon.com Click on image to view/buy.

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Eastern Body Western Mind by Anodea Judith.

Psychology and the Chakra System as a Path to the Self.

Addiction to Perfection

Marion Woodman. Addiction to Perfection. On amazon.com Click on image to buy
Marion Woodman. Addiction to Perfection. On amazon.com Click on image to buy

I’m going to share an extract from the Preface of Marion Woodman’s book, “Addiction to Perfection,”

“This book is about taking the head off an evil witch. Lady Macbeth, glued to the sticking-place of insatiable power, unable to countenance failure to the point of rejecting life, will serve as a symbol of the woman robbed of her femininity through her pursuit of masculine goals that are in themselves a parody of what masculinity really is. And though in Shakespeare’s tragedy it is Macbeth who is beheaded, the head he loses is fatally infected by the witches’ evil curse. Macbeth and Lady Macbeth are metaphors of the masculine and feminine principles functioning in one person or in a culture, and the deteriorating relationship between them clearly demonstrates the dynamics of evil when the masculine principle loses its standpoint on its own reality, and the feminine principle of love succumbs to calculating, intellectualized ambition.”

Marion Woodman, “Addiction to Perfection.” P7

♥Ali

The Ravaged Bridegroom

The Ravaged Bridegroom, by Marion Woodman. On amazon.com Click on image to view/buy.

The Ravaged Bridegroom, by Marion Woodman. On amazon.com Click on image to view/buy.

Buddhist Psychology

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Overcoming Relationship Problems

By Michael Crowe. Available on amazon.com Click on image to buy.

By Michael Crowe. Available on amazon.com Click on image to buy.

A self-help guide using Cognitive Behavioral Techniques.