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Narcissism

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“Narcissism describes both a psychological and a cultural condition. On the individual level, it denotes a personality disturbance characterized by an exaggerated investment in one’s image at the expense of the self. Narcissists are more concerned with how they appear than what they feel. Indeed, they deny feelings that contradict the image thy seek. Acting without feeling, they tend to be seductive and manipulative, striving for power and control. They are egotists, focused on their own interests but lacking the true values of self – namely, self-expression, self-possession, dignity and integrity. Narcissists lack a sense of self derived from body feelings. Without a solid sense of self, they experience life as empty and meaningless. It is a desolate state.

On the cultural level, narcissism can be seen in a loss of human values – in a lack of concern for the environment, for the quality of life, for one’s fellow human beings. A power betrays its insensitivity to human needs. The proliferation of material things becomes the meausre of progress in living, aand man is pitted against woman, worker against employer, individual against community. When wealth occupies a higher position than wisdom, when noteriety is admired more than dignity, when success is more important than self-respect, the culture itself overvalues ‘image’ and must be regarded as narcissistic.”

Page ix.

The History of Psychology

This is an e-book from Dr. C. George Boeree. Click on image to read.

This is an e-book from Dr. C. George Boeree. Click on image to read.

Dr. C. George Boeree originally wrote this e-book for his students at Shippensburg University, in Pennsylvania, and has made it available online, for free, to anyone who interested.

It’s very easy to read, and gives a brilliant background to the history of psychology, set in context.

I think it’s wonderful Dr. Boeree has posted such high quality material, which is available to people like myself, at no cost.

I also think we sometimes forget about the power of the internet and how brilliant it is that I can sit in my kitchen in London and access reliable, high quality, education from a University in Pennsylvania.

Thank You Dr. Boeree.

♥Ali.

The Diffusion Of Sufi Ideas In The West

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The Road Less Traveled

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Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus

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Astrology For Lovers

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Liz Greene is both an astrologer and a psychotherapist.

This book is the only book on astrology I have. Because I appreciate her view.

The author’s view is astrology is not about that “silly but irresistible column the daily newspaper where Madam Somebody-or-other tells one that Wednesday will be a rotten day.” Her view of astrology is esoteric. Where: “Esoteric simply means inner. ‘Esoteric’ can refer to a lot of different things, from the Maharishi and Transcendental Meditation, to the Children of the Temple of God in Guyana. Esoteric studies can range from the ridiculous to the sublime. They can plumb the ancient learned treatises on alchemy, magic, Hermetic philosophy and the kaballah. They can explore mysteries like the Bermuda Triangle. Inner is a bout parapsychological phenomena, dreams, visions, altered states of consciousness. It’s about synchronistic phenomena, precognitive dreams, telepathy, clairvoyance. It’s also about depth psychology, the study of the human soul. And it can also be about astrology.” (p4).

To me, her view is interesting and insightful. The focus is on relationship and how to better understand yourself, to curb lopsidedness: “The over-emphasis on one way of  looking at life and people” is, she says, “A propensity we all share. Astrology has a lot to say about lopsidedness. By learning something about your own astrological makeup, you can see pretty quickly just how one-sided your own view of reality is.

…On any journey, inner or outer we need road maps. Outer road maps are plentiful enough. Inner one’s aren’t. Astrology is an inner road map.

If you really think the solution to the problem of relationships lies in things ‘out there’ in society, look again. It may just lie in ourselves, in our ways of dealing with our lopsidedness and our lack of self-knowledge. How in the world can you possibly expect to get on with somebody else when you don’t even know who you yourself are?” (p5-6).

♥Ali.

Narcissism

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This from the introduction:

“Narcissism describes both a psychological and a cultural condition. On the individual level, it denotes a personality disturbance characterized by an exaggerated investment in one’s image at the expense of the self. Narcissists are more concerned with how they appear than what they feel. Indeed, they deny feelings that contradict the image thy seek. Acting without feeling, they tend to be seductive and manipulative, striving for power and control. They are egotists, focused on their own interests but lacking the true values of self – namely, self-expression, self-possession, dignity and integrity. Narcissists lack a sense of self derived from body feelings. Without a solid sense of self, they experience life as empty and meaningless. It is a desolate state.”                                                         p ix

This about himself:

“I have always considered myself a phallic-narcissistic character, and so I have some idea of how this personality type develops. I know that I was the apple of my mother’s eye. She looked to me to fulfill her ambitions. I was more important to her than my father was. And although my mother was not overtly sexually seductive, the implications of her feelings were sexual. Her emotional investment in me provided an extra measure of energy and excitement to my personality. Yet her need to possess me, and thus control me, diminished my sense of self. In this situation, my ego became bigger than my self, making me a narcissistic personality. On the other hand, through my identification with my father, who was simple, hardworking, and pleasure loving, I retained my feeling for the life of the body. which is at the core of the feeling self.”

The Language of the Body

The Language of the Body, by Alexander Lowen, M.D.

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Hands Of Light

By Barbara Ann Brennan. Click on image to buy.

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Hands Of Light, by Barbara Ann Brennan.

Dr. Barbara Ann Brennan. Click on image to enter her website.

Dr. Barbara Ann Brennan. Click on image to enter her website.

Dr. Barbara Ann Brennan is a physicist who worked at NASA’s Goddard Space Flight Center. As well as having a Master’s Degree in Atmospheric Physics, a B.S. in Physics,Dr. Brennan also has a Doctorate of Philosophy, a Doctorate of Theology and she is a graduate of the Institute of Core Energetics and a Senior Pathwork® Helper. She describes herself as a healer, therapist and scientist and has researched the Human Energy Field for more than 30 years.

This is the first book by Dr. Brennan, which explains all about the human energy field. Dr. Brennan works with auras and energy patterns as well as spirituality.

At first, it was a bit wacky for me, to be honest. It was a bit far out there. But fascinating none the less. I love her because she’s a scientist, and so although she is dealing with in depth spiritual concepts she manages to explain things in a fairly matter of fact way.

The more I read it, the more I suspended my scepticism and the more open I became to her teachings, the more my mind was blown away.

Dr. Brennan believes “In this universe, all things are interconncted, corresponding to a holistic experience of reality.” However she says, “More than we want to admit we are products of our western scientific heritage. How we learned to think and many of our self-definitions are based on the same scientific models used by physicists to describe the physical universe.”

The following notes are my rough notes, cribbed from her review of the history and development of key scientific concepts.

“ Newtonian Physics

Until eastern religions began to have a deeper impact on our thinking much of our thinking (subconscious) was evolved from Newtonian physics,17thc and early 18th c. The concept that we are solid objects. In the 19th c . This definition of the universe was extended to describe a universe composed of like the earth travelling around the sun.

These laws were seen as the basic laws of nature.

They successfully described the motions of the planets, mechanical machines and atoms. These atoms were thought of as composed of solid objects – a nucleus of protons and neutrons with electrons revolving around the nucleus much fluids in continuous motion.

This view is very comforting to those of us who wish to see the world as solid and largely unchanging. Much of our daily lives is still run on Newtonian mechanics. We see our bodies in a mechanical way. We define most of our experiences in terms of absolute, three dimensional space and linear time.

We all have clocks – we use them to define linear time.

Field Theory

In the early 19th c new physical phenomena were discovered that could not be described by Newtonian physics. The discovery and investigation of electromagnetic phenomena led to the concept of a field. A field was described as a condition in space which has the potential of producing a field.

The old Newtonian thinking interpretated the interaction between positively and negatively charged particles like protons and neutrons simply by saying the two particles attract each other.

However Michael Faraday and James Clerk Maxwell used the field theory saying each charge creates a “disturbance” or a “condition” in the space around it so the other charge, when it is present feels a force.

This is why we sense another – mothers know when their children are in trouble no matter where they are. We know who is on the phone before they speak.

Most of us are just beginning to get  our heads round the concept that we are composed of fields. We sense another in the room before we see them.

This is field interaction. We speak of good or bad vibes, sending energy to others or reading another’s thoughts. We immediately know if we like someone or dislike someone.

Relativity

In 1905 Albert Einstein published his Special Theory of Relativity and shattered all the principal concepts of the Newtonian world view.

According to relativity theory space is not three dimensional and time is not a separate entity. Both are intimately connected and form a four dimensional continuum, “space-time”.

Thus we cannot talk about time without space and vice-versa. Furthermore there is no universal flow of time – i.e. time is not linear nor is it absolute. Time is relative. That is two observers will order events differently and can even order them reversely i.e. A sees 1 before 2 and B sees 2 before 1

Therefore all measurements involving space and time lose their absolute significance. Both time and space become merely elements to describe phenomena.

Time and space are so basic to descriptions of natural phenomenon and ourselves their modification entails a modification of the whole framework we use to describe nature and ourselves.

We have not yet integrated this part of Einstein’s relativity into our thinking.

We are still working by Newtonian time concepts and using this to invalidate our experience.

For instance we have all had instances of time speeding up or slowing down or we have all lost track of time. We have all met friends we haven’t seen for years and found its as if we saw them yesterday.

Einstein’s space-time continuum states the apparent linearity of events depends on the observer.

We are all too ready to accept past lives as literal physical lives that happened long ago in a physical setting like this one.

Our past lives may be happening right now in a different space-time continuum.

Similarly we may be living our future lives here and now.

As we live our life now it becomes more likely we are re-writing our personal history both past and future.

Another important consequence of Einstein’s relativity is the realisation that matter and energy are interchangeable. Mass is nothing but a form of energy.

Our physical bodies are nothing but energy.

Paradox

In the 1920’s physics moved into the strange and unexpected reality of the subatomic world. Every time physicists asked nature a question in an experiment nature answered with a paradox. The more they tried to clarify the situation the stronger the paradoxes became.

Finally physicists realised that paradox is part of the intrinsic nature of the subatomic world upon which all of our physical reality exists.

For example one can set up an experiment that proves light is a particle. A small change in this experiment will prove that light is a wave.  Therefore to describe the phenomenon of light both the concept of a wave and a particle must be used. Thus, we now move into a universe based on the concept of both/and.

On the personal level as we move more into the world of modern psychology and spiritual development we find the old forms of either/or also dissolving into the form of both/and. We are no longer bad or good. We no longer only hate someone or love someone. Within us we find much broader abilities. We can feel both love and hate and all emotions in between, for the same person. We act responsibly. We find the old dualism of God/Devil dissolving into a whole in which we find the Goddess/God within merging with the God/Goddess without. Anything evil is not the opposite of Goddess/God but resistance to the God/Goddess force. All is composed of the same energy.

Beyond Dualism – The Hologram

The whole universe now appears as a dynamic web of inseparable energy patterns. The universe is thus defined as a dynamic inseparable whole which always includes the observer in an essential way.

If the universe is indeed composed of such a web there is (logically) no such thing as a part. Thus we are not separated parts of a whole – we are a Whole.

Recently, physicist Dr David Bohm said in this book The Implicate Order that primary physical laws cannot be discovered by a science that attempts to break the world into parts. He has written of an “implicate enfolded order”

Which exists in an unmanifested state and is the foundation upon which all manifest reality rests.

He calls this manifest reality “the explicate unfolded order”

“parts are seen to be in immediate connection, in which their dynamical relationships depend in an irreducible way on the state of the whole system…thus, one is led to a new notion of unbroken wholeness which denies the classical idea of analysability of the world into separately and independently existent parts”

Dr. Bohm states that the holographic view of the universe is a jumping off place to begin to understand the implicate enfolded and explicate unfolded orders. The hologram concept states that every piece is an exact representation of the whole and can be used to reconstruct the entire hologram.

Dr Karl Pribram, a renowned brain researcher, has accumulated evidence over a decade that the brain’s deep structure is essentially holographic. ..the brain structures sight, hearing, taste, smell and touch holographically. The information is distributed throughout the system so each fragment can produce the information of the whole. Dr Pribram uses the holographic model to describe not only the brain but the universe as well.

He states the brain employs a holographic process to abstract from a holographic domain that transcends time and space. Para-psychologists might transmit telepathy, psychokinesis and healing.

From the point of view of the holographic universe, these events emerge from frequencies that transcend time and space, they don’t have to be transmitted. They are potentially simultaneous and everywhere.

All experience is interconnected. Therefore if we become aware of this and allow that interconnectedness into our cognitive process we can become aware of all events independent of all time.

Superluminal Connectedness

Scientists are now finding evidence for a universal immediate connectedness within a framework of science, both mathematically and experimentally.

In 1964 physicist JS Bell published a mathematical proof called Bell’s theorem.

Bell’s theorem mathematically supports the concept that subatomic “particles” are connected in some way that transcends space and time, so anything that happens to one particle affects other particles. This effect is immediate and does not need “time” to be transmitted.

Einstein’s theory of relativity stated that it is impossible for a particle to travel faster than the speed of light. Bell’s theorem has now been supported by experimentation. We are now talking about a phenomenon that stands outside Einstein’s theory of relativity. We are going beyond the wave/particle duality.

If physicists learn how this instantaneous connectedness works we could conceivably learn to be consciously aware of our instantaneous connections with the world and each other.

This would obviously drastically change how we interact with each other.

This instantaneous connection may provide us with the ability to read each other’s minds whenever we want to. We could know what is going on in each

Other and understand each other deeply.

We also see more clearly how our thoughts, feelings (energy fields) and actions affect the world much more deeply than we previously thought.

Morphogenetic Fields

Rupert Sheldrake in his book, A New Science of Life, proposes all systems are regulated not only by known energy and material factors but also by invisible organising fields. These fields are causative because they serve as blueprints for form and behaviour. These fields have no energy in the sense of the world because their effect reaches across the time and space barriers normally applied to energy. That is, their effect is just as strong at a distance as it is at close range.

According to this hypothesis whenever one member of a species learns a new behaviour the causative field for the species is changed, however slightly.

If the behaviour is repeated for long enough the its morphic resonance affects the entire species. Sheldrake called this invisible matrix a morphongenetic field from morph “form” and genesis “coming into being”

The action of this field involves ‘action at a distance’ in both space and time.

This means morphic fields can propagate across space and time and that past events could influence other events everywhere else.

An example of this is shown by Lyall Watson in his book “lifetide: The Biology of Consciousness” in which he describes what is now popularly called the Hundredth Monkey Principle. Watson found after a group of monkeys learned a new behaviour suddenly other monkeys on other islands with possible normal means of communication learned that behaviour too.

Dr David Bohm in the journal of Revisions states the same thing is true for quantum physics. He says the Einstein-Podolsky-Rosen experiment showed that there would be nonlocal connections, or subtle connections of distant particles. So there would be a wholeness about the system such that the formative field could not be attributed to one particle alone. It could only be attributed to the whole. Thus something happening to distant particles can affect the formative field of other particles.

In the same article Robert Sheldrake concludes:

“So the creative process which gives rise to new thought, through which new wholes are realised is similar in that sense to the creative reality which gives rise to new wholeness in the evolutionary process. The creative process could be seen as a successive development of more complex and higher-level wholes through previously separate things being connected together”

Multi-Dimensional Reality

Jack Safratti, another physicist, suggest in Psychoenergetic Systems that the way superluminal connectedness can exist is through a higher plane of reality. He suggests things are more connected or events more correlated on a plane of reality above ours and that things in that plane are connected through an even higher plane. Thus by reaching to a higher plane we may be able to understand how instantaneous connectedness works.” pages 21-28

I’m working extensively from this book.

♥Ali.

Light Emerging

By Barbara Ann Brennan. Click on image to buy.

By Barbara Ann Brennan. Click on image to buy.

Light Emerging, By Barbara Ann Brennan.

“The Journey of Personal Healing.”

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Dr. Barbara Ann Brennan. Click on image to enter her website.

Dr. Barbara Ann Brennan is a physicist who worked at NASA’s Goddard Space Flight Center. As well as having a Master’s Degree in Atmospheric Physics, a B.S. in Physics,Dr. Brennan also has a Doctorate of Philosophy, a Doctorate of Theology and she is a graduate of the Institute of Core Energetics and a Senior Pathwork® Helper. She describes herself as a healer, therapist and scientist and has researched the Human Energy Field for more than 30 years.

There’s so much in this book. Right now I’m working on another piece of writing, referencing this work, and I came across these passages I’d like to share:

Chapter 14. The Three Types of Auric Field Interactions In Relationships.

“Everything we think, say and do holographically affects everyone else through the life energy fields. Most of us are not conscious of the depth of this statement. Yet many are beginning to be. Many people feel it in a primitive way. We get a gut feeling that something terrible is happening, and we go to our TV sets to check out what it is. That is what many of us did on October 17, 1989, when our TVs told us that our gut feeling was right: The second-worst earthquake in recorded history had had just hit San Francisco. This gut feeling that something is wrong is common in many people when a large calamity happens somewhere on earth. In other cases, we have a feeling of lightness and freedom that tells us that something wonderful is happening. For example, when the Berlin wall came down, we felt our connectedness to the Berliners in their striving for and standing up for freedom.

We felt connectedness not just because we saw it on TV but because we are energetically connected through the fourth level of the auric field to all people in the world.” p176

Field Pulsations.

One major way we communicate through the auric field system is by influencing each other’s field pulsation rates. The pulsation rates in one person;s field induce a change in the pulsation rates of another’s field. It works just as tuning forks do. whichever auric field is stronger usually influences the other.”  p179

Bioplasmic Streamers.

“Whenever two people interact, great streams of bio-plasma flow between them. When people like each other, a great deal of energy is exchanged. The energy-consciousness in these bioplasmic streamers corresponds with the type of communication going on between the people involved. The colors and shapes of the bioplasmic streamers depict the nature of the interaction. In a comfortable, pleasant communication, the streamers are smooth-flowing, with soft, bright colors that dance in an exchange of energy. As a streamer from one person’s field reaches over and touches another’s field, it fills the other’s field with colors, feelings and energy. In normal relational interactions, lots of different kinds of streamers of energy-consciousness are exchanged between the people involved. The streamers can be any colour of the rainbow, and any shape. The brighter and clearer they are, the more positive, powerful, and clear the energy consciousness. These are the kinds of communication where each person gives a lot to the other, and both get filled, having had their needs met.

The heart chakra* on the fourth level of the field is rose. If there is a lot of love in the interaction, a lot of sweet rose energy flows in soft waves. When two people fall in love, the heart chakra on the fourth level becomes very active, training more rose energy into their auric field. (See figure 14-1)

Figure 14-1. The Auric Fields of a Couple in Love.

Figure 14-1. The Auric Fields of a Couple in Love.

Soon their auras are overflowing with rose energy. Couples in love create a beautiful rose cloud of energy around them. Anyone who happens to be near or in this cloud feels wonderful. We all love lovers. When we are near them our heart chakra on the fourth level begins to open more and pull in more rose light. And our auric fields also begin to produce a rose cloud. If there is passion, the rose will have a lot of orange in it, with a stimulating effect.”  p180

The Cords That Bind Us.

“Another type of auric interaction in relationship is through the cords of auric light that connect us to each other through our chakras. These cord connections occur between all like chakras. That, is people connect to each other with the cords going from first chakra to first chakra, from second chakra to second chakra, from third chakra to third chakra, and so on.

When working as a healer, the first cords I ever noticed were the ones that connect between third chakras. It seems that in our culture, the cords between third chakras get the most damage as we go through life. Almost all the people I have worked with have damage to their third chakra cords. Therefore they came to my attention first. At first, I didn’t understand the significance of the cords since I had never heard of them before. I just knew in a great number of the clients on whom I worked, I would find myself digging out cords that were embedded in the third chakra. In other cases, the cords would would be dangling out in space. Slowly, I realized that these cords connected to people with whom the client was in relationship.”  p183

Chapter 15. Observations of Auric Interactions During Relationships.

“Love is created when we come together, merge in communion, and then move apart again. The effects are immediately positive, and we experience more joy in our lives. When we come together and clash, we create life lessons or healing cycles that may be experienced negatively. But eventually, once lessons are learned or healings completed, they bring us back around to the positive. All this shows in auric field interactions.

We use all of the three major ways of influencing each other’s fields that were discussed in Chapter 14.Some of these ways are positive, some are negative. In the positive interactions, we get along fine. We make positive connections with people with the chakra cords. We exchange positive energy with each other through our bioplasmic streamers. We lift each other’s vibrations and bring clarity and lightness to each other through harmonic induction. We accept each other as we are and do not try to manipulate each other for our own purposes. In these positive interactions, we also do not allow other persons to mistreat us. We remain centred within ourselves and communicate well.

We also have habitual negative ways of interacting and manipulating each other through our fields. We usually do this out of fear and ignorance. We usually are not consciously aware that we are doing it. We try to make other persons’ fields pulsate like ours through harmonic induction because we are not comfortable with their vibrations. We pull and push each other’s fields with the bioplasmic streams of energy that flow between, or we stop the bioenergy flow altogether. We use the cords that are connected between us to get what we want. We try to hook or entangle each other with them. All this auric interaction is usually unconscious and invisible to most people, but anyone can learn to become aware of it and sense it by developing Higher Sense Perception.”   p203

*To understand more about the Chakra system, I read Dr. Anodea Judith, PhD.